The Lies “They” Want You To Believe

by Paul Colligan on November 30, 2009

One of the scary elements of being in this business are the meetings, emails, phone calls, conference chats, etc. you have with good hearted people who have completely and totally bought a “lie” in this space. They embrace the lie completely and throw everything into it. You’ve met these people. You may be one of these people. Here are 7 of the most popular lies. Any of them sound familiar.

If I just knew the secret, the money would start flowing in.

Yes, I sell products with the words “Secrets” attached to them. The thing about “secrets” are that they are just pieces of information. You need to act on / do something about the “secrets” before they do anything for you. If I tell you where the treasure chest is located, you still have to dig it up.

If I just start producing content, the sponsorship dollars will start flowing in.

Nope. Nadda. Ain’t gonna happen. One has NOTHING to do with the other. Now, you have to have content for people to sponsor but you’ll need to a) create the content and b) find someone to sponsor it. Trust you me this, you approaching someone to sponsor you will always be smarter than waiting for them to approach you.

And, by the way, looking for sponsors is one of the HARDEST ways to make money on the Internet … period.

And, I know, you’re thinking that Google Adsense is the answer to this one. It isn’t.

If I just link to the right affiliate program, the checks will start flowing in.

This is one of my favorites. I actually have received phone calls from people looking for their checks on account of them linking to my affiliate program a month or two back. Money from affiliate programs only happen if BUYERS CLICK ON SAID LINKS – and lots of them.

General rule of thumb – you’re going to get one purchase for every 100 buyers who clicks on an affiliate link.

The real money is made “while I sleep.”.

Again, I’ve heard this one a thousand times over. Nope, the “real” money is made when you make a product and put it up for sale. 99.99% of the time, the “real” money will come after you put the product up for sale.

The whole “while you sleep” thing comes from the fact that a well set up store can take orders while you, in fact, sleep – but again, I tell you, the “real money” is made when the product is created – it just takes a little time for it to be delivered accordingly.

I can Facebook/Twitter/INSERTSOCIALMEDIAPLATFORMHERE my way to riches.

Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. The chance of a sale being made is exponentially increased when you actually communicate with people and these social media tools are great for communication. But, shouting your sales to an audience who not only doesn’t want to hear, but who isn’t listening makes no sense at all.

Oh, yeah, and it doesn’t work either.

If I just came up for the right keywords in Google, the big money would finally arrive.

Also not true. Let’s rephrase this one a bit to make it true:

If I just came up for the keywords that buyers are searching Google for – and had a site that made the buyers want to choose me, the big money would finally arrive.

The more training I buy, the better my chances to make the big bucks.

This is a lot like the “secrets” thing mentioned above. I actually had someone return one of my product because “it didn’t work.” When he sent it back, it was still in the shrink wrap.

The more good training you act on, the better your chances on making the big bucks.

But, when push comes to shove (and remember, I sell training for a living), action will always make you more money than training ever will.

Action on good training is the “secret sauce” that brings it all together. But that is another blog post all together.

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Let’s have some fun with this. Post your “favorite” lies below in the comments (along with commentary like I’ve done here). I’ll pick my 7 favorites for a follow-up blog post and link directly to you. Sound fair?

  • willadams
    My personal favorite well-intentioned lie is this. "Just follow our simple, duplicatable, system and you'll be on your way to quitting your day job real soon."

    Even though this sounds seductive, the reality is that if it (whatever 'it' is) truly could be duplicated, a lot more people would be doing 'it', whatever it is. the truth is that a) 80% of the people won't do anything. 15% do something, but quit before their effort pays off. 5% get it, put in the time, overcome the learning curve, keep at it, and finally succeed.
  • Sorry Paul I will try again!

    It's only a lie if you do not believe in it ... some people will believe anything!

    BTW who was that chap who said the world was round?
  • The lie is a lie?
    If everyone lies - who is telling truth?
    If you lie about lying - is it a double negative?
    The best lie closely resembles the truth?
    It's what you do with the lie - is that the truth?
  • Not quite sure what you're saying here.
  • Only the Top Internet Marketers Are Making Big Money Online

    And that of course can be followed with, "and they're making it by selling one product after another to the masses of people desperate to find the 'secrets' to online marketing."

    Yes, there are Internet Marketers whose existence is based on selling one product after another with a low regard for the workability of the product. But there are folks out there selling great information on how to market online. And their level of care that you succeed is sufficiently high, that you KNOW they can help you...if you actually get your hands a bit dirty applying the information.

    Online marketing has a few unique features to it, but marketing is marketing is marketing. If you have a good product that people need or want, and you let enough people know about it in a way that they feel they can trust you to buy, you'll succeed. Marketing did not overnight become a mystery or a cult when it went online.
  • I'd agree that's a lie - but this one is a lie the "other" side usually tells.

    I'd agree with the basic premise, but online marketing's "few unique features" are a bit bigger / more important than that. game changers, if you will.

    But, yes, good stuff.

  • Arieljoy
    "The money's in the list"

    Yes and no. It is only in the list if you communicate effectively with the list. And the list had better be well-targeted to your offer.
  • paulcolligan
    Great point. Really great point. That one makes the follow up article for sure.
  • Sid
    Here's my least favorite "Hype" words which I think come very close to being lies if not damn lies.

    These two words are ... "Easy" and "Simple"

    There may be "easier" ways to rich, and "Simple" is in the eye of the beholder, but I don't think there is an "Easy" or "Simple" way to bee successul as an Internet Marketer.

    Sure, once you've combined great training like you and other successful on line marketers do with actually putting into practice what you and the good guys teach it's "easier" ... but it ain't "Easy" and while the system of the day may be "Simple" in concept it no doubt will not be "Easy".

    The good part is that those who've been successful at on line marketing didn't really think it was going to be "easy" or "simple" and so they plowed ever forward.

    This is where the "Law of Perseverance" comes into play... coupled with the Abundance Philosophy, Vision Boards, and the the other Subliminal methods to keep us moving in the direction of eventual success.

    Now the best advice I can give (in love) to my fellow Internet Marketers or would be Marketers is the following:

    "If you don't have a real passion for Internet Marketing in one or more of it's permutations it's best for you to just stay in your cubicle."

    If you didn't just say "Yes I have the passion" to yourself. You don't have it.

    Sid
  • paulcolligan
    Great Sid, now every time I use the "easy" I'm going to be thinking about this post.
  • "The more training I buy the better my chance to make the big bucks"! Gotta love it!
    As someone who is into promoting content...and the sales of information products, I hope more people do believe this..yet I teach the action part STRENUOUSLY!
    Thanks Paul for yet another excellent post!
    Elizabeth Harrington
  • paulcolligan
    You're welcome. Thanks for being in the NMIC.
  • shaqirhussyin
    Thanks, i really needed that... Massive Implementation starts NOW!
  • paulcolligan
    DO_IT!
  • It just doesn't take any work.

    You can work in your PJ's. This might even be true but who cares? The only people who are moved by this are people who aren't expecting to do any work.

    I love that there are people out there dispelling these myths.

    Thanks for being one of them.

    Susan
  • paulcolligan
    As a guy who had to wear suits 5 days a week for a number of years, I'll admit that I proudly wore PJs to "work" just to say that I could. It's kind of a "stick it to the man" thing - but it works for me.
  • Awstats to show traffic on sales pages
    Earnings checks without mentioning Adwords expenses
    Earning checks without mentioning that they were based upon product sales

    Specific claims of building a list or earning X in a short period of time without mentioning existing social equity, relationships/parnerships, affiliates, or giving away $5000 bonuses to lower value products.

    Oh, and then there is the springboard effect... but I will piss even more peopple off if I start talking about that.
  • paulcolligan
    Yup, yup and yup!
  • Not so much a 'lie' maybe, more a complaint I've heard too many times, and it continues to amaze me that it comes from people's mouths...

    "Oh they are just trying to sell me something!"

    As if they should be locked up, banished or severely reprimanded and have time out in the naughty corner at least!

    This may be said if there is no link in an email. Or if there is an indeed a link.

    I think when I hear that..."well what is wrong with that? Isn't that why we are online and why we went onto that person's list, to learn something from them?"

    To learn how to make money online. So if we want to make money online, why can people not make money from us?

    What we make the money - but they give it all to us for free?!

    I just don't get the logic.

    (of course offering free content is a great tactic as part of the marketing process and then there is a point to monetize)

    And more worrisome, is that holding such a negative view about making money, is likely to mean that they will struggle to make money themselves, as it's a scarcity mindset as opposed to abundance.

    Money is just energy exchange or value exchange - it's a 'good' thing. And we always have a choice on whether we see value in an offer or not. And if we don't - we don't need to make the person wrong for offering it to us :-)

    Caro :-)
  • paulcolligan
    Couldn't agree more.
  • Jonathan Bahr
    This post reminds me a lot of everyones good friend Kevin.

    "Natural Cures "They" Don't Want You to Know About."
  • paulcolligan
    You know - there are just certain kinds of copy that "work ;-)"

    Thanks for noticing.
  • Good stuff, Paul. The "making money in my sleep" mantra, while technically true, usually means having less sleep only because you're working so hard to make sure those orders can come in.

    Making money on auto-pilot? Doesn't really exist. You're not trading hours for dollars anymore, so the model is different, but there is no easy way to "quit your job" kind of income.
  • paulcolligan
    Quit your job income comes from building a business that allows you to quit your job. It's doable - but extremely tough - and "not worth it" for most.

    The silly notion that with the right secrets you're bank account will fill up in a twisted Santa Claus kinda imagery ... yeah, we need to kill that.
  • Tried doing a video, but seems to be having problems posting. Oh well, such is tech.

    You only need 'x' number of people and you'll be rolling in the money!

    Transferred over from the mlm industry, but basically shows that with a little effort, you can rake in massive profits. Can't be done. In reality, you need to work your butt off and then some for anything you do to pay off. Be sure you work your butt off doing something you enjoy though. Money shouldn't be the goal. ;)
  • paulcolligan
    Honestly, I have no problem with anyone who's "in it for the money." People who are willing to rip off others "for the money" should be shot but the simple of goal of making money in our space (or any space) isn't wrong.
  • Exactly.
  • great list, i can relate to a lot of what you have said here!
  • paulcolligan
    hopefully you haven't fallen for any of these ;-)
  • i wouldn't say that i've "fallen" for anything as such although i've purchased a number of different training courses i wasn't expecting to be a millionaire overnight or anything like that, whilst they are ok they are not exactly easy to implement, my needs are a lot more specific now because i know what my sticking points are and i know what i need to focus on
  • paulcolligan
    you know - if you've got focus - you've got more than most do right now ;-)
  • focus and a lot of patience me thinks is important, i'm hopeful, i have a routine that i work at every day an am starting to see tiny baby results, nothing to brag about but enough to make me wish that i had started doing this ten years sooner!
  • paulcolligan
    Good to hear.
  • I don't get caught up in the hype - common sense tells me if it sounds too good then it's probably not realistic. Obviously, the FTC agrees :)

    I do know, however, that a proper combination of the tactics above can lead to success over time. For example, it's how you leverage unique content with a long-tail keyword strategy and maybe sprinkle in affiliate links, etc to complete the picture. Of course, engaging in social media helps as you know.

    For me, the biggest "lie" has to do with product launch scarcity and the sense of urgency to purchase the next one-hit-wonder. In my experience these programs always come back for at least a second round offer and 99% of the content is already available for free somewhere else. I'm not saying they're bad products - it's what you'll do once you have the product that matters. And for most people, I'd guess they do nothing with it.
  • paulcolligan
    I understand where you're going here - and agree conceptually. However, scarcity in a product launch is not a lie (if the seller is ethical about it). What's the lie is "If I don't buy it today, I will never be able to get it."
  • Outsourcing will solve all your problems!
  • paulcolligan
    Oh yes, I forgot that one. She usually comes with the "for pennies a day" thing too ;-)
  • Traffic will come once you've built the site - you don't need to do anything special to get it!
  • paulcolligan
    Ahh, the old "Kevin Costner" lie. (If You Build It, They Will Come). Forgot about that one.
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